Turn your head 360 degrees when you are standing at a bar, at a park, on a street, at the mall and you will see couples doing sweet nothings and cheesy stuffs. People see this as normal today, contrary to the past, these acts have been already accepted specially in urban and periurban communities. While couples take advantage of this situation, there are those who takes it to a higher level, to same sex relationships.

It was forbidden by the holy scriptures for a man to have an intimate relationship with another man and for a woman likewise. It was said that a man is created for a woman and a woman for a man. That such act is immoral and is unforgivable by the law of the higher Being. And this has become part of the norms of many society.

But the contemporary society thinks otherwise. That love is blind, love is universal, it should not have any regard with gender and sexuality. Thus, came the same sex relationships visible everywhere. That a person should not be dictated whom to love as long as his/her feelings dictate it to be. That a man can love both man and woman and the woman the same. That  religion being the most powerful institution during the middle ages has lesser impact today.

While many believe that morality is valued much in the society, there are still those who opt to act on their will and love who they want to love. Bisexuals, gays and lesbian is becoming more and more “out” today. Personally I think that they have just realized that is is “okay” now to be like that today. But,is it really okay?

Many online communities today cater to the discreetness of this kind of relationships, providing a haven for people who would want to meet other people like them, people that will understand their feelings much as the latter can understand the former’s. But this communities do not provide much of this kind of avenue, lest, it provides an open place to find a sex partner of the same sex. Forum topics and threads revolve in this kind of genre, someone wanting to meet a sex partner, not a partner for life, but just for sex. Some even take advantage of this and make a living out of it. By becoming “callboys” and “callgirls”. Just to satisfy their cravings for sex and physical pleasure. Although not all involved in these communities seek sex, people who thirst for physical pleasure seem to dominate, defeating the purpose of the online community.

Same sex relationship is not about sex, it should be about love, respect and a feeling for the same sex. Heterosexuals should not think of the homosexuals as such. They are humans much like the heterosexuals. It is not impossible for them to love truly. It is not even impossible for heterosexuals to find love for sex. Altogether, both are humans, and both are the same, only of different preferences and different views but still exist in the same world.

To find love and to be happy should always be the goal of everyone. To obtain this goal, one should not judge another and that one should learn to respect another. Love is natural, it is innate, so let it be, and just be happy.