Problems never cease to come to everybody’s lives. They come every now and then, one after the other or sometimes one problem can generate another one. Sometimes, people even treat things as problems even if they are not, so it can be concluded that even people make their own problems. So what seems to be problem?
Nothing, if you wouldn’t treat things as such. Let’s say for example, you wake up early in the morning and then you realize that you are very late to the extent that you can already be considered as absent in your class and what’s worse is that you have already exceeded the maximum allowed absences. Is this a big or a small problem? It really depend on the person on how he/she will look at it and how he/she would react on it. But becoming sad, won’t do anything about it anymore since it has happened. Putting a smile or a frown won’t do anything about it so why choose to frown when you can always smile. But if the problem is something like a man will be told by his girlfriend of an unwanted pregnancy, now that can be a problem but then again, crying won’t get the baby out of the stomach, neither will solve the problem at all. So, why not smile, think and analyze the possible solutions, either to abort or to give the child a chance to live. Again, this is a decision making process and that tears won’t contribute anything, so why not just smile.
It doesn’t matter how big or small a problem really is, what matters is that one can handle them perfectly, with decisions made and solutions well thought of, one can never find a problem unsolved. As long as one can live by the decision he/she made, then there can never be wrong decision and thet everything has its own right place and a right time. So make big things small, just like measuring a windmill by your fingers.


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